Nigerian Rapper, Eva Alordiah has critically questioned why Nigerian men offer women to start a conversation with them.
She questioned the reason why they exhibit this behavior and how we got here.
Taking to her twitter account, Eva wondered who is to blame exactly. Could it be the way ladies have presented themselves or is the problem with the men.
Her tweet reads,
“How Nigerian men say Hi to women — “Do you need money? but why? How did we get here? Who is to blame for this behavior?”
This is coming after a Nigerian lady took to the social networking platform to reveal that a man sent her 50,000 Naira just because she responded to his chat.
“Well, I love being a woman,” the user, @_Matriach wrote alongside screenshots of her chat with the said man and the bank alert of 50,000 Naira she received from him.
Read post here.
This event has sparked mixed reactions online, with men claiming that Nigerian women are materialistic and always expecting or asking for money from men.
See some of the response to Eva Alordiah’s question,
@Jhaysn1 wrote, “I think the society is to be blamed..
Too much emphasizes on money to the extract that most ladies will only take a guy serious when money is involved and most guys belief it’s only when money is involved that a lady will take him serious…
@badboysnow wrote, “Na women start am na.. Urgent 2k”
@IQ_izi wrote, “You won’t blame nigerian men because, most ladies in relationship places money over the relationship, the relationship is just a name to get money.”
@Dj_kokanjo wrote, “All ladies are to blame! This isn’t what it is supposed to be. It’s almost transactional.”
A large percentage of people blamed the ladies.
How Nigerian men say Hi to women — “Do you need money?”
but why? How did we get here? Who is to blame for this behavior?
— Eva #EnergyGiver (@EvaAlordiah) September 9, 2020