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“When Is The Best Time To Get Married” – Science Reveals

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Many people daydream of having their perfect wedding. It is common to imagine one’s partner, his or her personality and looks, and the joy and excitement that will come from walking down the aisle.

Relatively few people imagine themselves and their partner being a particular age, but maybe they should start. Research suggests that a person’s age when they marry can have an impact on the quality of their marriage.

When should we get married?

It is generally not the best idea to get married right out of high school or even college. Kelsey Torgerson, a licensed clinical social worker, tells “Brides.com” that people should generally wait until they are at least 25 to get married. Before age 25 the brain is not fully developed, so a person may not yet be sure what he or she wants in a partner.

Waiting until at least 25 may also give a young couple time to experience challenges together that will shed light on whether they are compatible during both the good times and the bad.

Weena Cullins, a therapist specializing in premarital and relationship counseling, told Brides that in her clinical experience, 28-year-old brides are more prepared for a healthy marriage due to their confidence, self-awareness, and life experience. On the other hand, she says that men should marry at age 32 when they have matured and settled into a career. Anecdotal experience is all well and good, but what does the data say?

Research suggests that the ideal age of marriage is 28 or older.

People who marry above the age of 25 are 50% less likely to divorce within five years. According to research conducted by Nicholas H. Wolfinger at the Institute for Family Studies, divorce rates are lowest for people who first get married at around 30-34 years of age.

But what about people who first get married at 35 or older? Wolfinger hypothesizes that some of these people may have struggled to find a partner due to interpersonal difficulties, and maybe more likely to divorce for that same reason.

The best age to get married.

April Davis, the founder of LUMA Luxury Matchmaking, said it best when speaking to Brides.com: “The best time to get married is when you feel comfortable and confident in your job and personal life. If you were to give yourself an exact age, you might find that you settle for whomever you’re with at that age.”

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